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Best Friends, Not Fantasies

“I would rather be real than good.”

- Carl Jung

As humans, when it comes to our relationships, most of us have had painful and difficult experiences. And let's face it, most times, it looks like the problems and struggles are the other person’s fault, or maybe just bad luck in love or life, or whatever else we want to call it!

But did you know that oftentimes, the most intense and troublesome relationships we experience, usually have a lot more to do with what is inside us, instead of the “other”?

Shadow work offers us the opportunity to see this…

To begin the process of cutting through the illusion most every human encounters...

It’s not an easy task to take responsibility for what we are experiencing or have experienced, but I will tell you from experience, that it is well worth the effort. 

When we have the courage to open our eyes and see the mirror (Venus) that the “other” represents, we are on our way to healing an internal split.

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In fact, one of the purposes of the “significant other” is to help us know OURSELVES. 

We need help. We don’t know what we don’t know. No one knows their “whole” self and, the truth of the matter is that we can’t change something we don’t know about... 

Our unconscious only becomes conscious with awareness.

I see shadow work as a gift. It helps us begin appreciating the mirror that the “other” is holding up for us to see…

Yes, it can be painful, but the way to stop the suffering is to move through the pain by forming a new perspective.

Our Shadow can illuminate what is hidden from our awareness...

This is the kind of relationship of “wholeness” needed now in the Age of Aquarius — Best Friends not Fantasies. The Age of Pisces is over. Those old paradigms of being victims of our relationships can no longer work as we evolve.

Our 7th House and Venus placement and aspects in our birth chart hold the KEY. 

If this sounds interesting to you, then I have a very special opportunity for you. You can now start learning more about your Shadow with lifetime access to Rebeca’s Shadow Dance Webinar portal for just $50.

Shadow Work & Your 7th House Webinar Portal for just $50!


When you join the Webinar Portal for just $50, you can expect to have access to 6 Curriculum Modules and so much more!!

Webinar Modules:

1. Understanding of Our Shadow, a term coined by the eminent psychiatrist, Dr. Carl Gustav Jung — what it is, how it is formed, and the archetypes that are in the psyches of us all.

2. Repeating Patterns as Mirrors — How and Why They Occur. You will learn empowering insights as to how to recognize your shadow in others and learn how to meet your partners/others halfway.

3. Complex Theory — Understanding How our Mother and Father Complexes are involved in our relationship life. Our parents are in us and we are all like our parents whether we know it or not. This unconscious participation mystique drives us to repeat their marriage in our relationships.

4. Who and Why We Fall in Love in the First Place and how to remain conscious when you are going through that blissful, intoxicating experience. You will discover there is a masculine (Anima) and feminine (Animus) in all of us (contrasexual images) and how important it is to start a dialogue with our unconscious and invisible partners.

5. Astrology, a Synchronistic Model — A Tool for Self-knowledge as it shows us a blueprint of our psyche. The 7th House in our birth chart in particular will describe your unique requirements in relationships. You will learn about the planets (archetypes) in your 7th House, the meaning of Venus in a particular House and Sign, and how to do them together. You will receive your birth chart and a legend of the Astrological symbols to see what is specifically about yourself in the webinar.

6. Individuation — Becoming Who We are Meant to Be. Jung gifted us with his analytical psychology concepts that can guide us in this endeavor. The process of integrating our own opposites through our Shadow Dance partners will eventually lead us to what he called individuation — wholeness. 

Not goodness, wholeness.  


Just enter your name, email, date, location, and time of birth below, and I will send you details of how to access the Shadow Work Webinar Portal for just $50!

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    AUTHOR:  Rebeca Eigen is an OSYL is a 7th House Astrologer and Relationship Alchemist. Rebeca authored a book about her area of specialty, The Shadow Dance & Astrological 7th House Workbook and Shadow Work.

    Her goal is to help others better understand relationships using the timeless methods of Astrology and Jungian psychology to introduce us to “the Shadow” in all of us – everything about us that is unconscious, repressed, undeveloped, or denied. 

    She helps people who have given up on relationships, who are frustrated with what they keep creating (difficult patterns), who want to know how to be a better partner and who may have heard the word "Shadow" and want to understand how to find and relate to their own Shadow. Find out more about Rebeca and her services HERE.

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