Love Spells

Love Spells 3 Ways
Self-Love, Looking for Love or Spicing Things up!

Valentine's Day is undoubtedly full of mushy, gushy love sentiments, chocolate, and flowers, but what if that just isn't in your life right now? Maybe you don't even want it to be, which is perfectly fine, but... maybe you do.

No matter what your status is with Cupid, working on self-love, looking for love, or wanting to spice things up with your love, there is a love spell for you.

Remember that magic is just manifestation with props; the magic is in you, and with all manifestation, the power is with the intention - with your words, your thoughts, your feelings. It is important that you first go within, quiet your mind, and really connect to find out what it is you really desire.

You may feel desperate for love, but really, do you need to work on your own self-love first, in order to be able to open your heart and welcome in the unconditional love you deserve? Consider that, and know you can do these spells anytime. You can work on the self-love and then call in love. You can work on self-love and then spice up your relationship with your love.

Either way, be clear on your intent and create the undisturbed space and time to honor yourself and your intentions with these spells.

Miss Independent Self-Love Spell

Miss Independent Love Spell, SELF-LOVE

At this time in your life, you prefer to ride solo. You simply don't have time for excess drama or time to spare to devote to a relationship.

However, you may need some help in the self-love department. Maybe you aren't as kind to yourself as you are to others, or you are a die-hard perfectionist who can never live up to your own expectations. You may just be somewhere in between, and just want to do something nice for yourself.

You deserve it - WE ALL DO!

If any of those ring a bell, grab these ingredients and get busy. This is a ritual spell.  

Miss Independent Love Spell Ingredients:

  • A pink or white candle

  • Essential oil (lavender, jasmine or sweet orange can be used)

  • A lighter or matches

  • Tub/Shower

  • Privacy

How to Cast your self-love Spell

💛With the essential oil, anoint your candle from the ends in towards the middle, do this all the way around the candle.

💛Light the candle🕯and place it somewhere safe.

💛With your back to the mirror (or you can face it if you are feeling confident, but remember NO JUDGING), begin slowly undressing saying one positive thing about each body part as it is revealed

💛When you are undressed say words to the effect…

I am strong and powerful; yet beautiful and sensual. The power of magic is within me and not without. My confidence grows stronger day by day. And so it is.

💛Anoint yourself on the neck, and even a dot on your 3rd eye if you want, with the essential oil - but only if you are not sensitive.

💛Take your bath or shower envisioning the weight of the world, and all the negativity being cleansed from your body... allowing and seeing your powerful self shining through. See yourself as the vision of who you desire to be and know you are already her. She may just need permission to come forward.

When you feel complete finish your shower or bath as you normally would.

Feel free to repeat this ritual regularly; once a month is nice, or as needed. What a wonderful way to make time for yourself and show yourself the love and care you deserve. You may also use the words you uttered as a daily mantra or affirmation to increase your intention as well.

Looking for Love Spell (Draw in a Partner Spell)

Looking for Love, lonely, love spell

Are you wanting to be in a relationship but there just doesn't seem to be any good mates out there?

Valentine's Day can sometimes leave you feeling left out and awkward, but instead you can turn your emotions and intentions into a LOVE BEACON sending out the signal for your matching partner.

First, take a moment to consider what it is that you want in a partner. Be sure to be specific, BUT remember that Universe/God/Creator knows better than we do what's in our best and highest good, so leave as much room to work with as possible.

Looking For Love Spell Ingredients:

  • A white candle

  • A pink candle

  • Sugar

  • A lighter or matches

  • A toothpick

  • A Cookie Sheet

How to Cast your love Spell

💞With the toothpick, carve your initials and birthdate into the pink candle. (Hold the toothpick close to the end that is doing the carving to maintain control and so it won't break or splinter)

💞With the toothpick, carve signs of love into the white candle. Hearts are good but if you have specifics that you are requiring for your love, carve those too. Man or woman, brown hair or blond, Asian or Caucasian, etc… AGAIN, remember the Universe/God/Creator knows better than we do, so do not be so specific. I never would have been happily married for all these years if I had narrowed it down to what I thought I liked

💞When you are done, place the pink candle on one end of the cookie sheet (you might want to cover it with foil first) and the white candle at the opposite end.

💞Take a small handful of sugar and encircle the two candles.

💞Say these words

Like a moth to  a flame the right mate will find me
Like a bee to honey he/she is drawn to me
Our vibrations to match I know this will be
And it harm none, so mote it be.

💞Light the candles, pink one first, and sit for a moment and envision yourself happily in a relationship. See it, feel it, know it to be true.

💞Allow it to burn for 7-12 minutes before snuffing it out.

💞The next day, move the candles closer to one another and say the words again, visualizing and allowing the candle to burn 7-12 minutes.

💞Do this each night for 7 nights, moving the candles closer and closer until they are touching.

This is a spell that you only do once and then you need to ALLOW. You are drawing in a partner, but you must allow the magic and your intentions to do the work. Do not sit around waiting… keep the intention, feeling it, seeing it, and knowing it to be true.

Heating Things Up Love Spell (Passion Spell)

heating things up, passion spell, sensuality

Sometimes our relationships need a little heat… a little spicing things up. Even the healthiest of relationships can fall into routines and habit which leave us wishing for a little more passion and excitement.

This is a spell for current relationships that need a little passion or fire.

{You can see me demonstrate this spell HERE.}

Passion Spell Ingredients:

  • A red candle

  • Essential oil (cinnamon, black pepper or clove can be used)
    Ground Cayenne, Ground Black Pepper, Ground Clove, or Ground Cinnamon

  • A toothpick

  • A paper plate

How to Cast your PASSION Spell

🔥With the toothpick carve both of your initials into the candle.

🔥You can also carve hearts or the symbols that represent your relationships (female and male symbols, etc.)

🔥If using the essential oils, anoint your candle from the ends in towards the middle, do this all the way around the candle.

🔥Place candle in a candle holder if it needs one, and place that on the paper plate.

🔥As you light the candle say…

With this spark I build a fire
With this spell I do conspire
Increasing our relational heat
And it harm none, so mote it be

🔥If you using the ground herbs instead of the essential oil, occasionally sprinkle a dusting over the flame as you visualize the two of you coming together in passion.

🔥Burn this candle for 7-12 minutes as you visualize, and then take it to the bedroom if you intend to have relations at that moment. If not, snuff it out and save for the next time.

You can repeat this ritual as often as needed and remember to keep your intentions strong in your mind. Also remember that magic also requires action. You cannot cast the spell and then sit in your flannels watching TV expecting your partner to suddenly morph into Don Juan and sweep you off your feet. Open communication, flirting, spontaneity, and fun will help spark your magic.

There are so many different aspects to love and I hope that these spells help pique your interest into what is possible.

Whether it is self-love (and really, doesn't it all start from there?), to finding a good match, to fueling the fire that maybe hasn't had the energy to burn as bright as it once did, there is something for everyone.


If you are looking for a spell kit or a custom spell, I can create those for you as well.

Kim Galliher

AUTHOR:  Kim Galliher is an OSYL Spiritual Diva, Intuitive Medium, Energy Healer and Maker of Magick. Her purpose is to empower you, by helping you see the choices available to you and by creating strong magical tools that are available for you to manifest your intentions with passion.

Find out more about Kim and her services HERE.